Rhonda Writes-
Yesterday was one of the first times I can truly say that Eric Lacey was more like his old self. His cousins (Morgan, Jarrod and families) are in town. He lit up when he saw them. They joked and laughed and gave him a sense of normalcy. Just what the doctor ordered. They're up there again today and I'm at home catching up on work and listening to 3 boys shoot "guns", 2 baby boys screaming with delight and a little girl that just wants to fit in with all the boys. Calgon? Ha-ha.
It's actually nice to hear a buzz about the house. I know Eric would love to be piled up here in the midst of all the action. I'm heading up there later for my nightly cuddle (I can actually get in bed with him at the new digs) and to close out the day with a little peace and quiet. He told me last night it broke his heart when I left each day. That's probably the most difficult time we've had so far…
The juggling act is becoming more and more difficult. Hopefully God will help me balance everything so I can spend enough time with Eric, the kids and work to keep everyone happy. *sigh* I need a massage. ;)
Sunday, March 30, 2008
Friday, March 28, 2008
March 28, 2009
Rhonda Writes -
No news is good news.... Sorry for missing a day of updates. Eric is settling in fine to his new "home away from home". The staff at Select is unbelievable and have made us feel so good about him being there. All assessments are completed and now the "real work" begins.
Eric's cousins (aka brothers) are coming into town tomorrow for a week. I think seeing them will definitely lift Eric's spirits. They won't let him sleep through a visit!! I started opening cards with Eric last night.
Wow---I am amazed at how many of you have sent cards, prayers and well wishes. Some of Eric's customers and friends he's worked with throughout the years have mailed cards and letters. It made him so happy. He's having a tough time processing all of this, as you can imagine. Hearing how many folks care about him and miss him does his heart good. I cry as I read the comments on the blog as well as the cards that arrive. I'm planning on printing all of this once Eric's better so he can recapture lost time and also see how many people are praying for his recovery. Its remarkable how friends have come into our lives and are now playing such important roles in Eric's care (and keeping me sane)! We will never be able to thank all of you enough.
Now--I'm off to the hospital. Getting back into the swing of things at work this week has been difficult. I know how much he needs me right now but we'll make it. How could we not with all of this awesome support!!!
Much love,
Rhonda
No news is good news.... Sorry for missing a day of updates. Eric is settling in fine to his new "home away from home". The staff at Select is unbelievable and have made us feel so good about him being there. All assessments are completed and now the "real work" begins.
Eric's cousins (aka brothers) are coming into town tomorrow for a week. I think seeing them will definitely lift Eric's spirits. They won't let him sleep through a visit!! I started opening cards with Eric last night.
Wow---I am amazed at how many of you have sent cards, prayers and well wishes. Some of Eric's customers and friends he's worked with throughout the years have mailed cards and letters. It made him so happy. He's having a tough time processing all of this, as you can imagine. Hearing how many folks care about him and miss him does his heart good. I cry as I read the comments on the blog as well as the cards that arrive. I'm planning on printing all of this once Eric's better so he can recapture lost time and also see how many people are praying for his recovery. Its remarkable how friends have come into our lives and are now playing such important roles in Eric's care (and keeping me sane)! We will never be able to thank all of you enough.
Now--I'm off to the hospital. Getting back into the swing of things at work this week has been difficult. I know how much he needs me right now but we'll make it. How could we not with all of this awesome support!!!
Much love,
Rhonda
Wednesday, March 26, 2008
March 26, 2008
Rhonda Writes -
Eric is getting settled into his new pad at Select Specialty! So far, so good. They sedated him for the ambulance ride so he's very sleepy at the moment. I'm getting ready to start filling paperwork, etc.
Eric is down to 131 pounds. For those of you that want to visit, I just want you to be prepared. He can not talk at all unless he has his valve on and even then its hard to understand what he's saying. He has no energy at all and can not eat. He has a feeding tube where they pour "Boost" 3 times a day. I'm notorious for taking snacks for folks at the hospital... Don't be surprised if he sleeps through your visit.
They are doing a lot of evaluations this afternoon and tomorrow and that really wears him out. No kids under 12 can visit (including my kids unfortunately) and I think there are purposely no chairs in his room---oh my back. :) Select is located on the 6th floor of Durham Regional Hospital. You must check and sign in at the desk. I'm not sure if they limit visitors but I'll ask.
Address:
Select Specialty
3643 North Roxboro Rd
Durham, NC 27704
Room 6228
Eric is getting settled into his new pad at Select Specialty! So far, so good. They sedated him for the ambulance ride so he's very sleepy at the moment. I'm getting ready to start filling paperwork, etc.
Eric is down to 131 pounds. For those of you that want to visit, I just want you to be prepared. He can not talk at all unless he has his valve on and even then its hard to understand what he's saying. He has no energy at all and can not eat. He has a feeding tube where they pour "Boost" 3 times a day. I'm notorious for taking snacks for folks at the hospital... Don't be surprised if he sleeps through your visit.
They are doing a lot of evaluations this afternoon and tomorrow and that really wears him out. No kids under 12 can visit (including my kids unfortunately) and I think there are purposely no chairs in his room---oh my back. :) Select is located on the 6th floor of Durham Regional Hospital. You must check and sign in at the desk. I'm not sure if they limit visitors but I'll ask.
Address:
Select Specialty
3643 North Roxboro Rd
Durham, NC 27704
Room 6228
Tuesday, March 25, 2008
March 25, 2008
Rhonda Writes - Are you guys ready for some good news????
Eric has been accepted into Select Rehab at Durham Regional Hospital. Select provides more intensive care than Durham Rehab Institute (ICU skilled nurses, Respiratory Therapists, etc.). This will be a great stepping stone to actual rehab and also provide physical therapy as a gradual process to improve Eric's muscle tone and movement.
Overall he's better… blood pressure looks good, oxygen level is good, he's getting more strength in his grip and coughing a little bit! (Internal coughing within diaphragm). We're waiting on his doctor now to give him the once over and approve his release tomorrow. Eric did not have another stroke Sunday. We were fearing that was happening but the CT scan showed all is good and he was reacting to sitting up more than to anything else when his pressure dropped so much. He does appear to have another infection and we're waiting on the lab results to see what and how to treat it.
Carol and I are so excited for him to have a change of scenery as well as step up his rehabilitation. He's in good spirits today. I've been joking with him a lot this afternoon and telling him stories about what the kids have been doing the past couple of days. Garrett's starting to "notice" the female anatomy. (I'm sure he wouldn't appreciate Mom posting this information!!) When I told Eric what Garrett said, he just cracked up. Happiest I've seen him in a long time.
Anyway, we're looking forward to tomorrow! Our good friends Kim, Susan and Christine all work at Select so it will be nice to know folks will be checking on him constantly! Makes me feel more at ease to say the least. I'll continue to keep everyone updated!
Rhonda Lacey
Eric has been accepted into Select Rehab at Durham Regional Hospital. Select provides more intensive care than Durham Rehab Institute (ICU skilled nurses, Respiratory Therapists, etc.). This will be a great stepping stone to actual rehab and also provide physical therapy as a gradual process to improve Eric's muscle tone and movement.
Overall he's better… blood pressure looks good, oxygen level is good, he's getting more strength in his grip and coughing a little bit! (Internal coughing within diaphragm). We're waiting on his doctor now to give him the once over and approve his release tomorrow. Eric did not have another stroke Sunday. We were fearing that was happening but the CT scan showed all is good and he was reacting to sitting up more than to anything else when his pressure dropped so much. He does appear to have another infection and we're waiting on the lab results to see what and how to treat it.
Carol and I are so excited for him to have a change of scenery as well as step up his rehabilitation. He's in good spirits today. I've been joking with him a lot this afternoon and telling him stories about what the kids have been doing the past couple of days. Garrett's starting to "notice" the female anatomy. (I'm sure he wouldn't appreciate Mom posting this information!!) When I told Eric what Garrett said, he just cracked up. Happiest I've seen him in a long time.
Anyway, we're looking forward to tomorrow! Our good friends Kim, Susan and Christine all work at Select so it will be nice to know folks will be checking on him constantly! Makes me feel more at ease to say the least. I'll continue to keep everyone updated!
Rhonda Lacey
March 25, 2008
Tom Writes-
Rhonda was out of town yesterday, so I wanted to give you an update on how Eric was doing. I don't have any news from his doctors, but he and I sat and looked through pictures that Rhonda had taken from Easter and from Garrett's birthday. He seemed to really enjoy that. Although Eric has a little difficulty carrying on a conversation, he can still talk, and I know that he especially enjoyed the pictures of the kids.
Rhonda will be back today, so I am sure she will have some news for us. Until then, keep the prayers and good wishes coming.
Rhonda was out of town yesterday, so I wanted to give you an update on how Eric was doing. I don't have any news from his doctors, but he and I sat and looked through pictures that Rhonda had taken from Easter and from Garrett's birthday. He seemed to really enjoy that. Although Eric has a little difficulty carrying on a conversation, he can still talk, and I know that he especially enjoyed the pictures of the kids.
Rhonda will be back today, so I am sure she will have some news for us. Until then, keep the prayers and good wishes coming.
Monday, March 24, 2008
March 24, 2008
Rhonda Writes -
Carol and I brought the kids up to see Eric today. They didn't get to spend much time with him though... Eric started having a pretty severe headache and his blood pressure shot up right about the time we arrived. Karen (my cousin) rushed over to pick up the kids and Carol and I are still here waiting to talk to the doctor. Eric's also having some problems with the feeding tube. They "think" the food is coming up and aspirating into his lungs. A CT scan showed a small mass (could be fluid, infection...?) in his lung so they put him back on fluids through the IV. These set backs are preventing him from going to Durham Rehab tomorrow but I'd rather him stay put until he's well enough to go. There's something about the weekend... That's when he seems to decline. His pain is better now and he's resting. Keep the prayers coming......
Carol and I brought the kids up to see Eric today. They didn't get to spend much time with him though... Eric started having a pretty severe headache and his blood pressure shot up right about the time we arrived. Karen (my cousin) rushed over to pick up the kids and Carol and I are still here waiting to talk to the doctor. Eric's also having some problems with the feeding tube. They "think" the food is coming up and aspirating into his lungs. A CT scan showed a small mass (could be fluid, infection...?) in his lung so they put him back on fluids through the IV. These set backs are preventing him from going to Durham Rehab tomorrow but I'd rather him stay put until he's well enough to go. There's something about the weekend... That's when he seems to decline. His pain is better now and he's resting. Keep the prayers coming......
Sunday, March 23, 2008
March 23,2008
Rhonda Writes -
It's 11 p.m. so I'm sure it will be Sunday before Tom gets this email and posts. I wanted to let everyone know that Eric (and I) had a much better day today. He was not confused at all and answered all my questions correctly as I played "Speech Therapist" walking through some of the exercises I've seen them do. He was talking so well that I picked up the phone and called the kids.
He was able to speak to both of them and hear all the bazillion things they were doing on a Saturday at home with my Mom. He talked to each of them for several minutes so by the time I hung up the phone, he was completely worn out. It seemed to boost his spirits though!! Carol and I spent most of the day at the hospital, driving him crazy I'm sure! :) His Dad drove in from Indiana to see him and spent some time this evening with him too.
I hope everyone has a beautiful Easter! After church we're tking Garrett & Erica to the hospital to visit for a bit. I'll try to take a pic or two to post if Eric's still feeling good. Love to everyone!
Saturday, March 22, 2008
March 22, 2008
Rhonda Writes -
I apologize for not posting yesterday. It was a tough day emotionally and I couldn't find those positive words.
I met with Eric's neurosurgeon and discussed Eric's prognosis and the past couple of weeks. The weekend of the 8th, Eric had an Ischemic stroke. This occurred while in ICU (a result of his blood pressure dropping so low from the infection). We didn't find out about it for days because there were "differing opinions" regarding what happened. This stroke did not occur in the area where the surgery and first stroke occurred. This was devastating news and Carol and I are still processing it. I spent about 10 hours with Eric yesterday. He's very confused at times and most of the day has no energy whatsoever to talk or interact.
The step down unit is very different than the ICU. One of his ICU nurses (Jeremiah) came to see how Eric was doing last night. When I saw him I just broke down. He asked if they'd been suctioning Eric's trach regularly and he proceeded to put gloves on and do it himself. The ICU is very aggressive in patient care and improvement. The step down room are exactly that... Step downs.
He is supposed to be going to rehab Monday morning. Carol thinks once he has a change of scenery and is "physically" working towards progress, we'll see huge changes in him. I pray that's the case. I need to see Eric's spark again and know that everything is going to be okay.
I apologize for not posting yesterday. It was a tough day emotionally and I couldn't find those positive words.
I met with Eric's neurosurgeon and discussed Eric's prognosis and the past couple of weeks. The weekend of the 8th, Eric had an Ischemic stroke. This occurred while in ICU (a result of his blood pressure dropping so low from the infection). We didn't find out about it for days because there were "differing opinions" regarding what happened. This stroke did not occur in the area where the surgery and first stroke occurred. This was devastating news and Carol and I are still processing it. I spent about 10 hours with Eric yesterday. He's very confused at times and most of the day has no energy whatsoever to talk or interact.
The step down unit is very different than the ICU. One of his ICU nurses (Jeremiah) came to see how Eric was doing last night. When I saw him I just broke down. He asked if they'd been suctioning Eric's trach regularly and he proceeded to put gloves on and do it himself. The ICU is very aggressive in patient care and improvement. The step down room are exactly that... Step downs.
He is supposed to be going to rehab Monday morning. Carol thinks once he has a change of scenery and is "physically" working towards progress, we'll see huge changes in him. I pray that's the case. I need to see Eric's spark again and know that everything is going to be okay.
Thursday, March 20, 2008
March 20, 2008
Rhonda Writes -
Carol spent the day with Eric. I'm very under the weather so I'm staying at home to prevent getting Eric sick. I called his nurse last night and she gave him the phone so the kids could say goodnight and tell them they love him. It was really sweet. It was nice to be able to tell him goodnight myself since I spent my first day away from him. Carol said PT, OT and Speech all gave him a work out this morning. He had his trach balloon deflated and the cap on so he could talk some. Carol called the house so I was also able to talk to him today too. She said his spirits are a little better today. My girlfriend Pam sent me an email with the below quote which I thought was perfect to put on the blog.
"Our lives are not determined by what happens to us, but by how we react to what happens; not by what life brings to us, but by the attitude we bring to life. A positive attitude causes a chain reaction of positive thoughts, events and outcomes. It is a catalyst...a spark that creates extraordinary results."
Carol spent the day with Eric. I'm very under the weather so I'm staying at home to prevent getting Eric sick. I called his nurse last night and she gave him the phone so the kids could say goodnight and tell them they love him. It was really sweet. It was nice to be able to tell him goodnight myself since I spent my first day away from him. Carol said PT, OT and Speech all gave him a work out this morning. He had his trach balloon deflated and the cap on so he could talk some. Carol called the house so I was also able to talk to him today too. She said his spirits are a little better today. My girlfriend Pam sent me an email with the below quote which I thought was perfect to put on the blog.
"Our lives are not determined by what happens to us, but by how we react to what happens; not by what life brings to us, but by the attitude we bring to life. A positive attitude causes a chain reaction of positive thoughts, events and outcomes. It is a catalyst...a spark that creates extraordinary results."
Wednesday, March 19, 2008
March 19, 2008
Rhonda Writes -
This morning, Eric was experiencing more issues with his blood pressure and heart rate. His blood pressure keeps dropping so the nurses have put him back on the blood pressure medication. He had speech therapy this morning and they said he was doing really well in that area. PT and OT have not been in yet. Kim did another Raiki treatment today.
We're hoping Eric isn't losing his spirit. He's really down and we're trying everything to keep him encouraged and motivated. Last night I pulled the recliner up next to his bed and turned on American Idol. One of our favorite things to do is watch and "critique" the singers (because we're experts, don't cha know!). I couldn't even get him to turn towards the TV. I know he's tired of being in bed.
Please pray for him to find the energy and strength he's going to need to plow through the next few weeks. Please also pray that I find the words to comfort him and provide additional strength to help him through this journey.
This morning, Eric was experiencing more issues with his blood pressure and heart rate. His blood pressure keeps dropping so the nurses have put him back on the blood pressure medication. He had speech therapy this morning and they said he was doing really well in that area. PT and OT have not been in yet. Kim did another Raiki treatment today.
We're hoping Eric isn't losing his spirit. He's really down and we're trying everything to keep him encouraged and motivated. Last night I pulled the recliner up next to his bed and turned on American Idol. One of our favorite things to do is watch and "critique" the singers (because we're experts, don't cha know!). I couldn't even get him to turn towards the TV. I know he's tired of being in bed.
Please pray for him to find the energy and strength he's going to need to plow through the next few weeks. Please also pray that I find the words to comfort him and provide additional strength to help him through this journey.
Tuesday, March 18, 2008
March 18, 2008
Rhonda Writes -
Guess what???? Eric's going to the step down room TODAY!!! He's doing so good that they think he's ready to leave ICU. I have mixed feelings about it. Its nice knowing that he has someone literally watching him 24/7.
The step down is a private room and usually one nurse has 3 patients. Still a good ratio but I'm a Nervous Nellie. They would still like to limit visitors to family members for a while longer. He had such bad luck with the infection and his immune system is still weak. Once he's stronger and in rehab, he should be able to have visitors. The big par-tay will be planned for later this summer and we want everyone reading this blog to attend. :)
It's a great day, isn't it? Eric's still really tired but I'm trying to get him excited about going into his own room. He just looks at me and Carol like we need to calm down. Ha-ha. We thank God every minute for answered prayers. He has guided so many people and will continue to do so until Eric is home. His love is amazing.
Guess what???? Eric's going to the step down room TODAY!!! He's doing so good that they think he's ready to leave ICU. I have mixed feelings about it. Its nice knowing that he has someone literally watching him 24/7.
The step down is a private room and usually one nurse has 3 patients. Still a good ratio but I'm a Nervous Nellie. They would still like to limit visitors to family members for a while longer. He had such bad luck with the infection and his immune system is still weak. Once he's stronger and in rehab, he should be able to have visitors. The big par-tay will be planned for later this summer and we want everyone reading this blog to attend. :)
It's a great day, isn't it? Eric's still really tired but I'm trying to get him excited about going into his own room. He just looks at me and Carol like we need to calm down. Ha-ha. We thank God every minute for answered prayers. He has guided so many people and will continue to do so until Eric is home. His love is amazing.
Monday, March 17, 2008
March 17, 2008
Rhonda Writes -
Eric's a worn out pup today. Yesterday was a big day full of activities. He had PT and OT come in and then they put him in a wheelchair and got him ready for a visit with the kids. I brought Carol and the kids back up around 5 and we all went out to the courtyard. The kids were really excited to see him! Then they were off to an Easter Egg hunt and I stayed for a while. So, all the excitement took its toll and today he just wants to nap. He's got a slight fever and his heart rate is up a bit but overall he's doing great!!
Eric's a worn out pup today. Yesterday was a big day full of activities. He had PT and OT come in and then they put him in a wheelchair and got him ready for a visit with the kids. I brought Carol and the kids back up around 5 and we all went out to the courtyard. The kids were really excited to see him! Then they were off to an Easter Egg hunt and I stayed for a while. So, all the excitement took its toll and today he just wants to nap. He's got a slight fever and his heart rate is up a bit but overall he's doing great!!
Sunday, March 16, 2008
March 15, 2008
Rhonda Writes -
Eric's been in good spirits today! He had a fever again this morning but for once. Tylenol did the trick. The PT had him up again in a recliner for a while. Tom's wife Stephanie came up to the ICU today disguised as a hairdresser and gave Eric a good buzz. His hair was sooo long. I knew it had to be driving my clean cut husband nuts. He's looks like he's back in basic training again. :)
His Mom and I are with him now doting on him. He's eating it up---or at least that's what we're telling ourselves. His blood pressure is still giving the nurses some grief but all in all he is making it through the weekend without any major issues. That's all we can ask for. I had another lesson in nursing today learning more techniques with the trach. I'm thinking of leaving my career in contract furniture and going into nursing.
Totally kidding... but it is interesting to learn. I feel like I'm married to a miracle. God's precious miracle. Things are really going in the right direction.
Eric's been in good spirits today! He had a fever again this morning but for once. Tylenol did the trick. The PT had him up again in a recliner for a while. Tom's wife Stephanie came up to the ICU today disguised as a hairdresser and gave Eric a good buzz. His hair was sooo long. I knew it had to be driving my clean cut husband nuts. He's looks like he's back in basic training again. :)
His Mom and I are with him now doting on him. He's eating it up---or at least that's what we're telling ourselves. His blood pressure is still giving the nurses some grief but all in all he is making it through the weekend without any major issues. That's all we can ask for. I had another lesson in nursing today learning more techniques with the trach. I'm thinking of leaving my career in contract furniture and going into nursing.
Totally kidding... but it is interesting to learn. I feel like I'm married to a miracle. God's precious miracle. Things are really going in the right direction.
Friday, March 14, 2008
March 14, 2008
Rhonda Writes-
Eric is still progressing.... They took the trach collar off which was providing oxygen to allow him to completely breathe on his own with no assistance of any kind. PT came in and got him out of the bed and into a recliner. It was a lot of hard work but he's been sitting in it for an hour and a half Carol said!! I'm going up tonight for Friday "date night"...AKA no sweats!!
I try to gussie up a little more when its "date night". We got the thumbs up on Durham Rehab Institute which is located on a floor in Durham Regional Hospital. They had the option of sending him to Durham, Chapel Hill and Raleigh so we're really excited to learn that DRI evaluated him and felt he was a good candidate for their facility. We have several good friends that work at Durham Regional's Select Rehab facility, also located in the hospital so he'll have lots of folks checking in on him.
No word yet when he'll be out of the ICU but hopefully he'll be able to go straight into the rehab facility. The biggest issues right now are swallowing and his right arm and leg. He has no gag reflex which means he can't control swallowing. The trach assisted in breathing but also has an inflatable tube that protects his lungs from liquid coming down through the windpipe. If you deflate the tube, it allows air to pass over his vocal chords which then allows him to talk. They're teaching me to do this and cap the trach. The allows air to come in through the trach and out through his mouth. The speech therapist will work with Eric on building his muscles to learn literally how to swallow again. Until he can do it on his own, the trach and feeding tube (in his stomach) will stay in place.
Regarding his arm and leg---he is beginning to use his arm more but still has no movement in his leg. He's always been weaker on the right side, but the downturn he experienced last weekend made it much worse. His vitals dropped so low that it made current conditions worsen. He's got his work cut out for him, but Eric's never backed away from a challenge....
Eric is still progressing.... They took the trach collar off which was providing oxygen to allow him to completely breathe on his own with no assistance of any kind. PT came in and got him out of the bed and into a recliner. It was a lot of hard work but he's been sitting in it for an hour and a half Carol said!! I'm going up tonight for Friday "date night"...AKA no sweats!!
I try to gussie up a little more when its "date night". We got the thumbs up on Durham Rehab Institute which is located on a floor in Durham Regional Hospital. They had the option of sending him to Durham, Chapel Hill and Raleigh so we're really excited to learn that DRI evaluated him and felt he was a good candidate for their facility. We have several good friends that work at Durham Regional's Select Rehab facility, also located in the hospital so he'll have lots of folks checking in on him.
No word yet when he'll be out of the ICU but hopefully he'll be able to go straight into the rehab facility. The biggest issues right now are swallowing and his right arm and leg. He has no gag reflex which means he can't control swallowing. The trach assisted in breathing but also has an inflatable tube that protects his lungs from liquid coming down through the windpipe. If you deflate the tube, it allows air to pass over his vocal chords which then allows him to talk. They're teaching me to do this and cap the trach. The allows air to come in through the trach and out through his mouth. The speech therapist will work with Eric on building his muscles to learn literally how to swallow again. Until he can do it on his own, the trach and feeding tube (in his stomach) will stay in place.
Regarding his arm and leg---he is beginning to use his arm more but still has no movement in his leg. He's always been weaker on the right side, but the downturn he experienced last weekend made it much worse. His vitals dropped so low that it made current conditions worsen. He's got his work cut out for him, but Eric's never backed away from a challenge....
Thursday, March 13, 2008
March 13, 2008
Rhonda Writes-
Another great day!! We're on a roll. They took the drain out this morning. When I got to the hospital, Eric had already seen the Speech, Occupational and Physical Therapists. He was WORN OUT!! I took my laptop today and showed him the blog for the first time today and let him look through the pictures. He was very impressed!! Keep the pictures coming! He really enjoyed looking at them. I told him we needed to grow the mullet again.... Ha-Ha. Chick magnet. His neurosurgeon came in and said everything is looking good!!
Another great day!! We're on a roll. They took the drain out this morning. When I got to the hospital, Eric had already seen the Speech, Occupational and Physical Therapists. He was WORN OUT!! I took my laptop today and showed him the blog for the first time today and let him look through the pictures. He was very impressed!! Keep the pictures coming! He really enjoyed looking at them. I told him we needed to grow the mullet again.... Ha-Ha. Chick magnet. His neurosurgeon came in and said everything is looking good!!
Wednesday, March 12, 2008
March 12, 2008 - Afternoon
Rhonda Writes-
Garrett and Erica got to spend time with Eric today!!!! They wheeled his bed out by the patient elevator windows this afternoon so he could see them. The Respiratory Specialist was with Eric's nurse and he deflated the tube in Eric's trach so he could say something. His first words???? "Luke--I am your father". Classic Eric. Garrett thought that was pretty funny. He had a hard time talking but once the kids were gone, they practiced with him a little more and he did great! Hearing his voice again was music to my ears. The kids did well seeing him. Erica was a little shy at first but not Garrett. He was quizzing the nurse on every tube, machine, fluid and monitor reading that he saw. They both held Eric's hand and kissed him. It was beautiful. Now that the kids are gone, we're back in his "room". He is getting a blood transfusion tomorrow. They think it will help strengthen him a bit. He looks great and seems happy. I'm definitely happy!!!!! Whoo Hoo!!!!
Garrett and Erica got to spend time with Eric today!!!! They wheeled his bed out by the patient elevator windows this afternoon so he could see them. The Respiratory Specialist was with Eric's nurse and he deflated the tube in Eric's trach so he could say something. His first words???? "Luke--I am your father". Classic Eric. Garrett thought that was pretty funny. He had a hard time talking but once the kids were gone, they practiced with him a little more and he did great! Hearing his voice again was music to my ears. The kids did well seeing him. Erica was a little shy at first but not Garrett. He was quizzing the nurse on every tube, machine, fluid and monitor reading that he saw. They both held Eric's hand and kissed him. It was beautiful. Now that the kids are gone, we're back in his "room". He is getting a blood transfusion tomorrow. They think it will help strengthen him a bit. He looks great and seems happy. I'm definitely happy!!!!! Whoo Hoo!!!!
March 12, 2008
Rhonda Writes -
Carol is at the hospital with Eric and just called to let me know how things are going. He's still making great progress. The have taken him off of the ventilator and only providing a little oxygen by means of a trach collar now. Carol gave him a ball to squeeze with his right hand (right side has been affected by the stroke) and he threw it out in the hall! Two days ago he couldn't squeeze my hand with his right hand so this is exciting news!! He's wearing a "boot" on his right leg to keep the tendons stretched. He still doesn't have much movement in his leg but rehab will hopefully change that! They have turned the drain (shunt) off and will hopefully remove it today or tomorrow since there is no more signs of fluid building up on his brain. His lungs are looking better and still no fever. OT (Occupational Therapist) and PT (Physical Therapist) have both been in to work with him today. The doctors said that we should be able to bring the kids up to see him this afternoon as long as everything stays on track. They will help Eric into a recliner and wheel him by the back patient elevators for a quick visit. Isn't that wonderful???? I know Eric's ready to see them and they're definitely ready to see him. He's doing great other than being bored and tired. :) He was mouthing the words to the Chili's theme song last night… "I want my baby back, baby back, baby back…" We were actually having a good time!! He's coming back to us slowly but surely.
Carol is at the hospital with Eric and just called to let me know how things are going. He's still making great progress. The have taken him off of the ventilator and only providing a little oxygen by means of a trach collar now. Carol gave him a ball to squeeze with his right hand (right side has been affected by the stroke) and he threw it out in the hall! Two days ago he couldn't squeeze my hand with his right hand so this is exciting news!! He's wearing a "boot" on his right leg to keep the tendons stretched. He still doesn't have much movement in his leg but rehab will hopefully change that! They have turned the drain (shunt) off and will hopefully remove it today or tomorrow since there is no more signs of fluid building up on his brain. His lungs are looking better and still no fever. OT (Occupational Therapist) and PT (Physical Therapist) have both been in to work with him today. The doctors said that we should be able to bring the kids up to see him this afternoon as long as everything stays on track. They will help Eric into a recliner and wheel him by the back patient elevators for a quick visit. Isn't that wonderful???? I know Eric's ready to see them and they're definitely ready to see him. He's doing great other than being bored and tired. :) He was mouthing the words to the Chili's theme song last night… "I want my baby back, baby back, baby back…" We were actually having a good time!! He's coming back to us slowly but surely.
Tuesday, March 11, 2008
March 11, 2008
Rhonda Writes-
Eric's is showing a lot of improvement today. The antibiotics are doing their job regarding the bacterial infection in his lungs and his fever is gone. He's so much more alert today mouthing works to be...getting frustrated because I can't understand what he's saying.... :) He has gained some more weight (up to 151 lbs!) and is indeed the model patient. He's got "the hot nurse" today so I'm sure he's trying extra hard to make her happy. Hee hee! All in all it has been a great day with great progress! Still waiting on the MRI results but hopefully we'll know something tonight. His neurosurgeon is in surgery and I'm waiting on his visit to the ICU. Will update more later.
Eric's is showing a lot of improvement today. The antibiotics are doing their job regarding the bacterial infection in his lungs and his fever is gone. He's so much more alert today mouthing works to be...getting frustrated because I can't understand what he's saying.... :) He has gained some more weight (up to 151 lbs!) and is indeed the model patient. He's got "the hot nurse" today so I'm sure he's trying extra hard to make her happy. Hee hee! All in all it has been a great day with great progress! Still waiting on the MRI results but hopefully we'll know something tonight. His neurosurgeon is in surgery and I'm waiting on his visit to the ICU. Will update more later.
Monday, March 10, 2008
March 10, 2008
Rhonda Writes -
Here is the latest... although we don't know much more.
Eric is downstairs now having another MRI of his brain. The MRI will show every detail just to rule out another stroke. The meningitis test came back negative which is GREAT! He's still very weak but he is looking at us like he sees us today. I know that sounds odd but over the weekend he didn't. He was very glazed over and it appeared that he could not see us. Once he's back from MRI, they will hook up an EKG to check for seizures. It almost looks like he's having hiccups (which is one of the issues that lead them to check the brain to begin with when he was having stomach problems). Whatever bacterial infection he has "acquired" is taking a toll on his body. They're having a hard time controlling his fever and vitals. He's on medication to elevate his blood pressure until they rule of the stroke (which I thought they did yesterday but apparently a CT scan can miss some things). I hope it's only a bacterial infection. That's scary in itself but treatable. Our friend Kim has been coming in giving Eric Raiki treatments and she's coming back this evening. Positive energy.... I pray with him every day. I keep telling myself it's only been two weeks since he had the stroke and he came so very close to losing his life. It's going to take more time for him to get stronger. He just really needs a break from all of these other problems preventing him from working on the real issues.
Here is the latest... although we don't know much more.
Eric is downstairs now having another MRI of his brain. The MRI will show every detail just to rule out another stroke. The meningitis test came back negative which is GREAT! He's still very weak but he is looking at us like he sees us today. I know that sounds odd but over the weekend he didn't. He was very glazed over and it appeared that he could not see us. Once he's back from MRI, they will hook up an EKG to check for seizures. It almost looks like he's having hiccups (which is one of the issues that lead them to check the brain to begin with when he was having stomach problems). Whatever bacterial infection he has "acquired" is taking a toll on his body. They're having a hard time controlling his fever and vitals. He's on medication to elevate his blood pressure until they rule of the stroke (which I thought they did yesterday but apparently a CT scan can miss some things). I hope it's only a bacterial infection. That's scary in itself but treatable. Our friend Kim has been coming in giving Eric Raiki treatments and she's coming back this evening. Positive energy.... I pray with him every day. I keep telling myself it's only been two weeks since he had the stroke and he came so very close to losing his life. It's going to take more time for him to get stronger. He just really needs a break from all of these other problems preventing him from working on the real issues.
Sunday, March 9, 2008
March 9, 2008
Rhonda Writes -
Eric's not doing well. He's having his second CT scan, he's back on the ventilator and they put the shunt back in b/c the first CT showed fluid on his brain again. While I was typing he returned from the scan...no additional fluid, no blood which means no second stroke which we were all worried about. They are testing him for spinal menangitis and his pneumonia is much worse again. He just can't win. There's a group of folks here from our church praying, I'm praying, his Mom and I are praying together..... He will pull through this.
Eric's not doing well. He's having his second CT scan, he's back on the ventilator and they put the shunt back in b/c the first CT showed fluid on his brain again. While I was typing he returned from the scan...no additional fluid, no blood which means no second stroke which we were all worried about. They are testing him for spinal menangitis and his pneumonia is much worse again. He just can't win. There's a group of folks here from our church praying, I'm praying, his Mom and I are praying together..... He will pull through this.
Saturday, March 8, 2008
March 8, 2008
Rhonda Writes-
The rollercoaster is going back up that hill.... Today we've seem a slight decline in Eric's responsiveness. He's having a lot of problems with his vision (which has been going on all week) and overall, I think he's just not feeling as good today as he was yesterday. The ventilator is still turned off and he has just a little oxygen flowing into the trach by means of a "trach collar". He worked pretty hard yesterday and managed to lift his back off the bed! Today, between that and the surgery yesterday, I think he's just tired. It scared us to death when we walked in because he was so alert last night and even managed to write a word with his left hand on a piece of paper. Today I couldn't even get a thumbs up. The doctor said this is a very normal course for stroke patients. They will have great days and then days where they just won't do much at all. It's just so emotional for me and Carol. We're standing at his bed, both crying. He probably thinks we've lost our minds. He's drifting off to sleep now-hoping I'm sure, that we'll be quiet and let him rest.
The rollercoaster is going back up that hill.... Today we've seem a slight decline in Eric's responsiveness. He's having a lot of problems with his vision (which has been going on all week) and overall, I think he's just not feeling as good today as he was yesterday. The ventilator is still turned off and he has just a little oxygen flowing into the trach by means of a "trach collar". He worked pretty hard yesterday and managed to lift his back off the bed! Today, between that and the surgery yesterday, I think he's just tired. It scared us to death when we walked in because he was so alert last night and even managed to write a word with his left hand on a piece of paper. Today I couldn't even get a thumbs up. The doctor said this is a very normal course for stroke patients. They will have great days and then days where they just won't do much at all. It's just so emotional for me and Carol. We're standing at his bed, both crying. He probably thinks we've lost our minds. He's drifting off to sleep now-hoping I'm sure, that we'll be quiet and let him rest.
March 8, 2008
Rhonda Writes-
Eric's breathing on his own!!! Ventilator has been turned off for 30 minutes. He's also acting more like Eric. Yea!!
Eric's breathing on his own!!! Ventilator has been turned off for 30 minutes. He's also acting more like Eric. Yea!!
March 8, 2008
Rhonda Writes -
Eric has a tear on his vocal chord, probably from pulling the tube out. They saw it when they scoped for the trach. He's going down now for a CT scan to check it out again. Doc said it should heal on its own in time if its not too bad. Physical therapy starts tomorrow. They're going to (hopefully) get him out of bed!!!! Everything is going fine. He's still shooting the bird--this time at his Mom. It's killing me. We can't help but laugh.
Eric has a tear on his vocal chord, probably from pulling the tube out. They saw it when they scoped for the trach. He's going down now for a CT scan to check it out again. Doc said it should heal on its own in time if its not too bad. Physical therapy starts tomorrow. They're going to (hopefully) get him out of bed!!!! Everything is going fine. He's still shooting the bird--this time at his Mom. It's killing me. We can't help but laugh.
Friday, March 7, 2008
March 7, 2008 - From Phoenix Airport
Tom Writes -
I am sitting in the airport in Phoenix waiting for my connection to Las Vegas. I have to laugh about Eric flipping Rhonda off....it MUST be the drugs. The Eric we know and love simply would never have done such a thing. ;-)
Rhonda tells me he is going to be out of the ICU soon, and I am looking forward to seeing him again. I know we all are. I have greatly appreciated reading the comments on this blog from all Eric's friends and loved ones. Keep 'em coming...
seeya, and plan on being at the welcome home party for Eric whenever it might be...
I am sitting in the airport in Phoenix waiting for my connection to Las Vegas. I have to laugh about Eric flipping Rhonda off....it MUST be the drugs. The Eric we know and love simply would never have done such a thing. ;-)
Rhonda tells me he is going to be out of the ICU soon, and I am looking forward to seeing him again. I know we all are. I have greatly appreciated reading the comments on this blog from all Eric's friends and loved ones. Keep 'em coming...
seeya, and plan on being at the welcome home party for Eric whenever it might be...
March 7, 2008
Rhonda Writes -
Eric's surgery was delayed until 2:00. He just got out and everything went well. They still have him on the ventilator but around 5:00 pm, they're going to see how he does without it. He's experiencing some delirium and that's probably why he tried to pull the tube out yesterday. Most of the time this is a result of days in the ICU with little sleep and being confined to the bed. He tried to pull it out again today when I was in the room and when I jumped up and "scolded" him he scowled and shooed me away. He later flipped me the bird (can you believe that???). Hopefully we're not seeing a permanent personality change. Ha-ha! Chalk it up to being delirious. Carol and I are in the waiting room waiting for him to wake up a little before we go back to see him. Hopefully this will be much for comfortable for him. The doctors are going to wean him off all sedation drugs but it could take a while to completely flush through his system. He's showing signs of pituitary damage (a result of the area of the brain the blood clot was) but again, they hope this is short-term. Tom, our resident blog-man, is on a business trip in Vegas but says he will still post for us. What a good guy!!! Thanks for everyone's support.
(Sent from my Blackberry...please excuse spelling errors)
Eric's surgery was delayed until 2:00. He just got out and everything went well. They still have him on the ventilator but around 5:00 pm, they're going to see how he does without it. He's experiencing some delirium and that's probably why he tried to pull the tube out yesterday. Most of the time this is a result of days in the ICU with little sleep and being confined to the bed. He tried to pull it out again today when I was in the room and when I jumped up and "scolded" him he scowled and shooed me away. He later flipped me the bird (can you believe that???). Hopefully we're not seeing a permanent personality change. Ha-ha! Chalk it up to being delirious. Carol and I are in the waiting room waiting for him to wake up a little before we go back to see him. Hopefully this will be much for comfortable for him. The doctors are going to wean him off all sedation drugs but it could take a while to completely flush through his system. He's showing signs of pituitary damage (a result of the area of the brain the blood clot was) but again, they hope this is short-term. Tom, our resident blog-man, is on a business trip in Vegas but says he will still post for us. What a good guy!!! Thanks for everyone's support.
(Sent from my Blackberry...please excuse spelling errors)
Thursday, March 6, 2008
March 6, 2008 - Evening
Rhonda Writes -
Duke just called me... Eric pulled his breathing tube out again!!!! They had him restrained and he still managed to do it. Those of you that know Eric know that he's not rowdy or the type that would deliberately go against what is right so I've come to the conclusion that its the sedation drugs making him loopy. They are still putting the trach in tomorrow. While the tube was out he did talk to them. They told him they had to put the tube back in--- he laughed and said "yeah, I know". *shrug* He's GOT to behave. ;)
Duke just called me... Eric pulled his breathing tube out again!!!! They had him restrained and he still managed to do it. Those of you that know Eric know that he's not rowdy or the type that would deliberately go against what is right so I've come to the conclusion that its the sedation drugs making him loopy. They are still putting the trach in tomorrow. While the tube was out he did talk to them. They told him they had to put the tube back in--- he laughed and said "yeah, I know". *shrug* He's GOT to behave. ;)
March 6, 2008
Rhonda Writes -
IS THIS A BEAUTIFUL DAY OR WHAT???
I'm walking around with a big ole grin on my face… The neurosurgeon removed Eric's shunt this morning. There is no more swelling or fluids that shouldn't be there. He's doing so well and having such a good day. An Occupational Therapist came in for an evaluation this morning. He's having difficulty with his right arm and hand but definitely stronger than before. He smiled constantly today. Even with the breathing tube in, it was the most beautiful smile I've ever seen. What a wonderful birthday gift for Garrett… I can't wait to tell him how well his Daddy is doing. Tomorrow morning is the surgery for the trach/feeding tube and Eric's hybrid "doctor/nurse" said he's betting Eric will be off the ventilator tomorrow. The staff at Duke have been so good to Eric and to us… I know I'm always in their way but they don't seem to mind. I've grown attached to them…the ICU is my home away from home. Once Eric's off the ventilator, he'll be able to leave the ICU and go into what's called a step-down room. We're all looking forward to that. We've received over 100 cards. I haven't opened the first one… I want him to open and read them himself. I know he'll be overwhelmed by the love, support and concern our friends have shown. I feel like prayers are being answered every day. If this doesn't prove to everyone just what God is capable of, I don't know what would.
IS THIS A BEAUTIFUL DAY OR WHAT???
I'm walking around with a big ole grin on my face… The neurosurgeon removed Eric's shunt this morning. There is no more swelling or fluids that shouldn't be there. He's doing so well and having such a good day. An Occupational Therapist came in for an evaluation this morning. He's having difficulty with his right arm and hand but definitely stronger than before. He smiled constantly today. Even with the breathing tube in, it was the most beautiful smile I've ever seen. What a wonderful birthday gift for Garrett… I can't wait to tell him how well his Daddy is doing. Tomorrow morning is the surgery for the trach/feeding tube and Eric's hybrid "doctor/nurse" said he's betting Eric will be off the ventilator tomorrow. The staff at Duke have been so good to Eric and to us… I know I'm always in their way but they don't seem to mind. I've grown attached to them…the ICU is my home away from home. Once Eric's off the ventilator, he'll be able to leave the ICU and go into what's called a step-down room. We're all looking forward to that. We've received over 100 cards. I haven't opened the first one… I want him to open and read them himself. I know he'll be overwhelmed by the love, support and concern our friends have shown. I feel like prayers are being answered every day. If this doesn't prove to everyone just what God is capable of, I don't know what would.
March 5, 2008 - Evening
Rhonda Writes -
I wasn’t able to stay away from Duke today. I had to go for a quick visit tonight. Eric’s still doing well. His surgery is scheduled for Friday morning (trach/feeding tube) and they expect it to go smoothly with no complications. He still has a low grade fever and developed a Urinary Tract Infection. The antibiotics that he’s been on should take care of it. He’s in the holding pattern. The ICU staff is just making him “comfortable” until the breathing tube can be removed. The trach will be so much more comfortable. Garrett’s birthday is tomorrow. He’s really missing his Dad and doesn’t understand why he can’t see him. Hopefully next week they’ll be able to wheel Eric out of the ICU long enough for a quick visit with the kids. We’re all working towards that. Thank you for everyone’s prayers.
I wasn’t able to stay away from Duke today. I had to go for a quick visit tonight. Eric’s still doing well. His surgery is scheduled for Friday morning (trach/feeding tube) and they expect it to go smoothly with no complications. He still has a low grade fever and developed a Urinary Tract Infection. The antibiotics that he’s been on should take care of it. He’s in the holding pattern. The ICU staff is just making him “comfortable” until the breathing tube can be removed. The trach will be so much more comfortable. Garrett’s birthday is tomorrow. He’s really missing his Dad and doesn’t understand why he can’t see him. Hopefully next week they’ll be able to wheel Eric out of the ICU long enough for a quick visit with the kids. We’re all working towards that. Thank you for everyone’s prayers.
Wednesday, March 5, 2008
March 5, 2008
Rhonda Writes -
Eric's status hasn't changed much since yesterday evening. They're trying to keep him "comfortable" until he can have the surgery for the trach. He's hardly drained overnight from the shunt so he may have that removed before his surgery. We're in a holding pattern right now… He sleeps most of the time which is good. At least that way he's not so miserable. I'm not able to go to the hospital today. I guess my immune system has taken a hit… I woke up with a nasty sore throat today. I'll call and check on him though and provide updates that I get from his nurse.
Eric's status hasn't changed much since yesterday evening. They're trying to keep him "comfortable" until he can have the surgery for the trach. He's hardly drained overnight from the shunt so he may have that removed before his surgery. We're in a holding pattern right now… He sleeps most of the time which is good. At least that way he's not so miserable. I'm not able to go to the hospital today. I guess my immune system has taken a hit… I woke up with a nasty sore throat today. I'll call and check on him though and provide updates that I get from his nurse.
Tuesday, March 4, 2008
March 4, 2008 - Evening
Rhonda Writes -
I just met with the ENT (Ear Nose Throat) surgeon. Eric is having a little difficulty with his lung preventing the removal of the chest tube. The surgeons can't do the trach/feeding tube surgery until Thursday or Friday. Neurologically, Eric continues to do great. He's following commands (hold up 2 fingers, wiggle your toes, etc.). They have told me tonight that he is showing signs of paralysis on one side of his throat. This may not be permanent but is going to make the swallowing/speech therapy more of a challenge. It will probably be another week before Eric can talk. The first trach will operate with a ventilator. The doctors want to be confident that he has the ability to breathe on his own. Hopefully he can come off of that and they will install another smaller trach with a "voice tube" that will allow Eric to talk. They've put in orders to start physical therapy in the ICU which is exciting. His muscle mass has deteriorated quite a bit and he's down to 142 pounds.
I just met with the ENT (Ear Nose Throat) surgeon. Eric is having a little difficulty with his lung preventing the removal of the chest tube. The surgeons can't do the trach/feeding tube surgery until Thursday or Friday. Neurologically, Eric continues to do great. He's following commands (hold up 2 fingers, wiggle your toes, etc.). They have told me tonight that he is showing signs of paralysis on one side of his throat. This may not be permanent but is going to make the swallowing/speech therapy more of a challenge. It will probably be another week before Eric can talk. The first trach will operate with a ventilator. The doctors want to be confident that he has the ability to breathe on his own. Hopefully he can come off of that and they will install another smaller trach with a "voice tube" that will allow Eric to talk. They've put in orders to start physical therapy in the ICU which is exciting. His muscle mass has deteriorated quite a bit and he's down to 142 pounds.
March 4, 2008
Rhonda Writes -
Eric’s still stable as far as his vital and physiological tests go. The doctors are having trouble with his medications… finding the right one that doesn’t completely sedate him, but makes him comfortable. Eric’s a light weight when it comes to these drugs. Last night he had a fever of 101 which is probably the result of some lingering pneumonia. The plan is to remove the shunt (that’s draining fluid preventing swelling in his brain) in a couple of days. When he’s somewhat sedated, his blood pressure stays very normal. When they wean him from the sedation, he becomes “rowdy” and tries to get up. We’re hoping the tracheotomy will happen by Thursday and swallowing therapy can begin. He still has no gag reflex but some cough reflex. The doctors feel like he’ll regain this it’s just going to take time. I wish therapy could begin so he can work on his strength and just feel better in that bed. I’ve began the OT process again (in my little world, I’ve become a nurse, occupational therapist, master of all things in the ICU) bending and lifting his arms and legs if for no other reason than to give him some comfort. I’ve started massaging his shoulders and legs and what I can reach of his back. I told him yesterday not to get used to this… J The road ahead of us is long with several bends that we can’t see around. It’s frustrating for everyone just not knowing. I know God knows and I’m trusting in Him to bring us all through this. Carol and I are splitting up today. She’s there now with him and I go in at 4:00 for the night shift. Maybe I can get a rise out of him by making him watch “What Not To Wear” or some other chick show on TLC. Keep praying for his body to heal, his patience in that bed and his overall well being. When I know more later today I’ll get another posting out there.
Eric’s still stable as far as his vital and physiological tests go. The doctors are having trouble with his medications… finding the right one that doesn’t completely sedate him, but makes him comfortable. Eric’s a light weight when it comes to these drugs. Last night he had a fever of 101 which is probably the result of some lingering pneumonia. The plan is to remove the shunt (that’s draining fluid preventing swelling in his brain) in a couple of days. When he’s somewhat sedated, his blood pressure stays very normal. When they wean him from the sedation, he becomes “rowdy” and tries to get up. We’re hoping the tracheotomy will happen by Thursday and swallowing therapy can begin. He still has no gag reflex but some cough reflex. The doctors feel like he’ll regain this it’s just going to take time. I wish therapy could begin so he can work on his strength and just feel better in that bed. I’ve began the OT process again (in my little world, I’ve become a nurse, occupational therapist, master of all things in the ICU) bending and lifting his arms and legs if for no other reason than to give him some comfort. I’ve started massaging his shoulders and legs and what I can reach of his back. I told him yesterday not to get used to this… J The road ahead of us is long with several bends that we can’t see around. It’s frustrating for everyone just not knowing. I know God knows and I’m trusting in Him to bring us all through this. Carol and I are splitting up today. She’s there now with him and I go in at 4:00 for the night shift. Maybe I can get a rise out of him by making him watch “What Not To Wear” or some other chick show on TLC. Keep praying for his body to heal, his patience in that bed and his overall well being. When I know more later today I’ll get another posting out there.
Monday, March 3, 2008
March 3, 2008
Rhonda Writes -
Well..... Mr Lacey is doing fantastic!!! Prayers are being answered. The pneumonia is clearing up and they're weaning him off the sedation drugs. What does that mean for me and Carol? He's so alert that he's trying to get out of bed. He's totally freaking his Mom out since he's still on the vent. I love it though because he's getting fired up and I know he's making that journey back to us. :) I'm overwhelmed at the folks that are sending cards and doing things for us. Carol and I want to thank everyone for that extra 10 pounds from all the AWESOME food being dropped off. I will never be able to thank all of you enough. I've even heard from folks in Eric's high school graduating class. You Hoosiers "ain't too bad"!! I hung pictures in the ICU room so Eric could see the kids. Erica's Sunday school class made cards for him yesterday and I showed them all to him. I can't begin to thank everyone enough for the prayers. We feel each and every one of them. It's amazing to see how God is working in all of our lives. Well, I've got to sign off for now and try to hold Eric down so they don't restrain him again. Keep him in line! Love to everyone!!!
Well..... Mr Lacey is doing fantastic!!! Prayers are being answered. The pneumonia is clearing up and they're weaning him off the sedation drugs. What does that mean for me and Carol? He's so alert that he's trying to get out of bed. He's totally freaking his Mom out since he's still on the vent. I love it though because he's getting fired up and I know he's making that journey back to us. :) I'm overwhelmed at the folks that are sending cards and doing things for us. Carol and I want to thank everyone for that extra 10 pounds from all the AWESOME food being dropped off. I will never be able to thank all of you enough. I've even heard from folks in Eric's high school graduating class. You Hoosiers "ain't too bad"!! I hung pictures in the ICU room so Eric could see the kids. Erica's Sunday school class made cards for him yesterday and I showed them all to him. I can't begin to thank everyone enough for the prayers. We feel each and every one of them. It's amazing to see how God is working in all of our lives. Well, I've got to sign off for now and try to hold Eric down so they don't restrain him again. Keep him in line! Love to everyone!!!
Sunday, March 2, 2008
March 2, 2008
Rhonda Writes-
MUCH BETTER DAY so far... I'll email more details later but in general there is improvement. Woo Hoo!!!!!
MUCH BETTER DAY so far... I'll email more details later but in general there is improvement. Woo Hoo!!!!!
Saturday, March 1, 2008
March 1, 2008 - Evening
Rhonda Writes-
Eric now has the chest tube in. Its tiny. They're calling it a "test" tube. Some new, exciting technology. He has more tubes now than the medical law should allow. He's in pain but they're giving him good drugs. He's starting to get pretty frustrated that he can't communicate. Slight nods and holding up a finger or two just isn't cutting it anymore. He's just tired---tired of laying in that bed, tired of the ventilator, tired of the restraints. I see his spirit returning in his eyes though. It gives me reassurance that he's going to be alright. I showed him pictures of Garrett and Erica that our friend Amy took of them today and he tried to smile. I know he misses them and they REALLY miss him. Keep the prayers coming. I know God is answering them. His will---that's what I pray for as hard as it may be at times. Eric has a purpose or he wouldn't have made it this far. I can't wait to see what evolves from this. Our faith has been tested yet at the same time its drawing us closer to Him and to each other.
Eric now has the chest tube in. Its tiny. They're calling it a "test" tube. Some new, exciting technology. He has more tubes now than the medical law should allow. He's in pain but they're giving him good drugs. He's starting to get pretty frustrated that he can't communicate. Slight nods and holding up a finger or two just isn't cutting it anymore. He's just tired---tired of laying in that bed, tired of the ventilator, tired of the restraints. I see his spirit returning in his eyes though. It gives me reassurance that he's going to be alright. I showed him pictures of Garrett and Erica that our friend Amy took of them today and he tried to smile. I know he misses them and they REALLY miss him. Keep the prayers coming. I know God is answering them. His will---that's what I pray for as hard as it may be at times. Eric has a purpose or he wouldn't have made it this far. I can't wait to see what evolves from this. Our faith has been tested yet at the same time its drawing us closer to Him and to each other.
March 1, 2008
Rhonda writes -
Another small set back this morning. Eric's lung has collapsed (spontaneous pneumothorax). This was caused by the pneumonia. They will insert a chest tube shortly to relieve the pressure and allow the lung to re-expand. He's oxygenating well though which is positive and has no fever. My poor baby. He can't focus on the neurological issues for dealing with all of this other things. They have him sedated so he's resting...
Another small set back this morning. Eric's lung has collapsed (spontaneous pneumothorax). This was caused by the pneumonia. They will insert a chest tube shortly to relieve the pressure and allow the lung to re-expand. He's oxygenating well though which is positive and has no fever. My poor baby. He can't focus on the neurological issues for dealing with all of this other things. They have him sedated so he's resting...
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