Saturday, March 8, 2008

March 8, 2008

Rhonda Writes-
The rollercoaster is going back up that hill.... Today we've seem a slight decline in Eric's responsiveness. He's having a lot of problems with his vision (which has been going on all week) and overall, I think he's just not feeling as good today as he was yesterday. The ventilator is still turned off and he has just a little oxygen flowing into the trach by means of a "trach collar". He worked pretty hard yesterday and managed to lift his back off the bed! Today, between that and the surgery yesterday, I think he's just tired. It scared us to death when we walked in because he was so alert last night and even managed to write a word with his left hand on a piece of paper. Today I couldn't even get a thumbs up. The doctor said this is a very normal course for stroke patients. They will have great days and then days where they just won't do much at all. It's just so emotional for me and Carol. We're standing at his bed, both crying. He probably thinks we've lost our minds. He's drifting off to sleep now-hoping I'm sure, that we'll be quiet and let him rest.

5 comments:

Patti said...

Hey Rhonda, I've been checking on Eric every day. I'm so happy to hear of every little improvement no matter how small. I think it's great that he's been able to breath on his own! And that he is communicating with you, (even if it is "sign language"). I've been wanting to come up to the hospital, but afraid I would just be in the way. But know that I'm here...just a phone call away.
Patti

Unknown said...

Rhonda,
I talk to your mom just about every day - I know I must be driving her nuts! She just gave me the information on this website to check on Eric. Please know that Scott and I are keeping you ALL in our prayers... God is GOOD and is working in Eric's body!! Please know that we are here if you need help with the kids or anything else...

Laura and Scott

dlacey said...

Rhonda,
It's great to hear that Eric is breathing on his own. I told David, grandpa Mel, & Terry about Eric flipping you & Carol the bird. They laughed, it made them so happy. They call every day to hear what is going on. David is on the road (California) bragging about having his air on, while us Hoosiers are knee deep in snow. I had some hand sign language for him too! We are very concerned about all of you. Stay strong. It is amazing how far medical technology has come. We send our love to all of you. Thank you for keeping us informed.
Theresa

Kirsten said...

Dear Rhonda,
Keep your chin up girl! remember, baby steps. There will be ups and downs in Eric's recovery but the Lord will give him strength. Keep you heart and eyes on Him and He will provide. Remember all the support you have out here.
Love you,
Kirsten

wayne/marty said...

Rhonda, So thankful to God you have things set up to keep us posted on eric. It does sound like you all have been up and down the hill many of times just keep the strenght and hang in there the day will come when all of eric's pains will be gone please let him know we pray for him daily. Also you take good care of yourself and the kids. Tell Carol keep the faith and we love her. Marty Lacey (aunt)